Ainura Kalau
Ainura was born in Central Asia, spent over a decade in Malaysia, and studied at an Australian university before settling in São Paulo, where she’s now raising her family. Her life blends cultures and perspectives, something that naturally shapes her writing. When she’s not working, she’s usually trying new recipes while binging true crime shows, soaking up sunny Brazilian days at the park or beach, or crafting something with her hands.
I have interviewed 50 adult children of difficult parents and the quietest thing that tends to come up isn’t anger or grief: it’s the particular tiredness of having spent years hoping someone would become a person they may have never quite been
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