If you recognize these 7 signs, you and your partner complement each other almost perfectly

As a relationship expert and founder of the Love Connection blog, I’ve realized that finding a partner who complements you perfectly can often feel like searching for a needle in a haystack.

But here’s the thing: the signs are often right there in front of us.

We just need to know what to look for.

In this piece, I’m going to share with you seven clear signals that indicate you and your partner are a perfect match.

This isn’t about manipulative tactics or trying to force a connection – it’s about recognizing the natural, effortless synergy that comes when two people truly complement each other.

So, whether you’re single and searching or already coupled up, keep reading.

You might just discover that you’re closer to the perfect partnership than you think.

1) You have shared values

In my years as a relationship expert, I’ve noticed that couples who truly complement each other often share core values.

This goes beyond simply having shared interests or hobbies.

It’s about the fundamental beliefs and principles that guide your lives.

Your approach to work, family, money, and life’s big questions – these are the things that really matter.

If you and your partner have a shared vision of the good life, it can create a deep sense of harmony and mutual respect.

It’s like you’re both rowing in the same direction, even when the waters get choppy.

Take a moment to reflect on your shared values.

Do you both prioritize family? Have similar views on money management? Agree on the importance of honesty?

A strong alignment in these areas can be a powerful sign that you and your partner are a perfect match.

2) You both know how to communicate

One thing I’ve learned from my own relationships and from the countless couples I’ve counseled, is that communication is truly the lifeblood of any partnership.

Complementary couples tend to have a knack for communication.

They listen, they understand, and they respond with empathy and respect.

Even when tackling the tough stuff, they manage to keep their lines of communication open.

In a healthy relationship, you should feel heard, understood, and valued.

If you and your partner can communicate effectively – even when it’s hard – that’s a solid sign you’re on the right track.

Remember, true communication isn’t just about talking; it’s about listening with empathy and understanding too.

So next time your partner is sharing something with you, make sure you’re really hearing them. It might just take your relationship to the next level.

3) There’s a good balance of independence and interdependence

Here’s something interesting: the best partnerships strike a balance between independence and interdependence.

In a complementary relationship, both partners are capable of standing on their own two feet.

But they also understand that together, they can achieve more.

They respect each other’s individuality but also cherish the strength of their bond.

This is a concept I delve into further in my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.

It’s all about learning to love in a way that promotes growth and healthy interdependence.

If you and your partner can navigate your relationship without losing yourselves or becoming overly dependent on each other, that’s a clear sign you complement each other beautifully.

You’re both able to be yourselves within the relationship, yet you’re stronger and better together.

4) You embrace your differences

Now, this might come as a surprise.

While it’s important to have shared values and interests, the differences between you and your partner can be just as crucial in determining how well you complement each other.

Here’s the thing: it’s our differences that often provide balance in a relationship.

For example, if you’re an introvert and your partner is an extrovert, they can encourage you to come out of your shell, while you can provide them with moments of calm and introspection.

If one of you is more spontaneous and the other more organized, you can bring a sense of adventure or stability to each other’s lives when needed.

In a perfect partnership, these differences aren’t seen as obstacles but as opportunities for growth and learning.

The key here is not to try to change each other but to embrace these differences and see them as strengths that make your partnership richer and more balanced.

So take a moment to consider the ways in which you and your partner differ.

You might just find that these differences are what make your relationship truly special.

5) You have mutual respect and admiration

This one hits close to home for me. In my own relationship, I’ve found that having mutual respect and admiration is a cornerstone of a healthy and complementary partnership.

In relationships where partners perfectly complement each other, there’s a deep-seated respect that permeates every interaction.

They see the best in each other and appreciate each other’s qualities, even the quirks.

This respect fosters a positive environment where both individuals can thrive.

After all, respect and admiration breed love and understanding.

6) You occasionally have conflicts

Let’s get real here: no relationship is without conflict.

In fact, if you’re in a relationship where there’s never any disagreement, it might be worth asking if you both truly are genuinely expressing your feelings and needs.

You see, in a relationship where two people perfectly complement each other, conflict is seen as an opportunity for growth rather than a threat.

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These couples understand that disagreements are inevitable.

They don’t shy away from them; instead, they navigate them with respect, understanding, and an openness to learn from each other’s perspectives.

It’s not about who is right or wrong. It’s about understanding each other better and finding a resolution that respects both partners’ needs and feelings.

So if you’ve had arguments with your partner (and let’s face it, who hasn’t?), don’t see it as a sign of doom.

If you’re able to work through these conflicts together with understanding and respect, it’s a true testament to the strength of your partnership.

It’s not the absence of conflict but how you handle it that defines the strength of your relationship.

7) You support each other unfailingly

The final sign that you and your partner complement each other perfectly lies in the unwavering support you provide for each other.

In my own relationship, I have found that having a partner who supports me in my dreams and ambitions, and likewise, me supporting him in his, has created a bond of trust and respect that is unshakeable.

If you find that both of you are each other’s biggest cheerleaders, always there to lift each other up in times of doubt and celebrate in times of triumph, then you’ve found a partnership that truly complements each other.

Having someone by your side who believes in you can make all the difference.

So cherish this support and give it back in equal measure.

It’s one of the greatest gifts of a truly complementary relationship.

Love is an action

Let’s get down to the bare truth: love isn’t just a feeling, it’s an action.

It’s about showing up for each other, even on the hard days. It’s about choosing your partner, again and again, in good times and bad.

In a perfectly complementary relationship, both partners understand this.

They don’t just say they love each other; they show it through their actions.

They are there for each other, they listen, they support, they forgive, they do little things that say “I love you” more powerfully than words ever could.

It’s not always easy. There will be times when you’re tired, frustrated or just not feeling it.

But if you can still show your love through your actions during these times, that’s a sign of a deeply committed and complementary relationship.

Stay honest, stay connected and embrace both the challenges and joys of your journey together.

And remember, it’s about balance – between independence and interdependence, between shared values and embracing differences, and between loving feelings and loving actions.

For further insights on fostering a healthy interdependence in your relationship, I invite you to take a look at my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.

Remember, love isn’t just about finding the right person, but also about being the right person.

So keep growing, keep loving, and keep nurturing your relationship. You’ve got this!